nvmet: Fix use-after-free bug when a port is removed

When a port is removed through configfs, any connected controllers
are still active and can still send commands. This causes a
use-after-free bug which is detected by KASAN for any admin command
that dereferences req->port (like in nvmet_execute_identify_ctrl).

To fix this, disconnect all active controllers when a subsystem is
removed from a port. This ensures there are no active controllers
when the port is eventually removed.

Signed-off-by: Logan Gunthorpe <logang@deltatee.com>
Reviewed-by: Sagi Grimberg <sagi@grimberg.me>
Reviewed-by: Max Gurtovoy <maxg@mellanox.com>
Reviewed-by : Chaitanya Kulkarni <chaitanya.kulkarni@wdc.com>
Signed-off-by: Sagi Grimberg <sagi@grimberg.me>