mptcp: pm: add lockdep assertions

Add a few assertions to make sure functions are called with the needed
locks held.
Two functions gain might_sleep annotations because they contain
conditional calls to functions that sleep.

Signed-off-by: Florian Westphal <fw@strlen.de>
Signed-off-by: Mat Martineau <mathew.j.martineau@linux.intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>