net/mlx5e: Use select queue parameters to sync with control flow

Start using the select queue parameters introduced in the previous
commit to have proper synchronization with changing the configuration
(such as number of channels and queues). It ensures that the state that
mlx5e_select_queue() sees is always consistent and stays the same while
the function is running. Also it allows mlx5e_select_queue to stop using
data structures that weren't synchronized properly: txq2sq,
channel_tc2realtxq, port_ptp_tc2realtxq. The last two are removed
completely, as they were used only in mlx5e_select_queue.

Signed-off-by: Maxim Mikityanskiy <maximmi@nvidia.com>
Reviewed-by: Tariq Toukan <tariqt@nvidia.com>
Signed-off-by: Saeed Mahameed <saeedm@nvidia.com>