r8169: fix resume on cable plug-in

It was reported [0] that network doesn't wake up on cable plug-in with
certain chip versions. Reason is that on these chip versions the PHY
doesn't detect cable plug-in when being in power-down mode. So prevent
the PHY from powering down if WoL is enabled.

[0] https://bugzilla.kernel.org/show_bug.cgi?id=202103

Fixes: 95fb8bb3

 ("net: phy: force phy suspend when calling phy_stop")
Reported-by: jhdskag3 <jhdskag3@tutanota.com>
Tested-by: jhdskag3 <jhdskag3@tutanota.com>
Signed-off-by: Heiner Kallweit <hkallweit1@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>