md: remove mddev->queue

Just use the request_queue from the gendisk pointer in the relatively
few places that sill need it.

Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Reviewed--by: Song Liu <song@kernel.org>
Tested-by: Song Liu <song@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: Song Liu <song@kernel.org>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20240303140150.5435-11-hch@lst.de