virtio_net: support per queue interrupt coalesce command

Add interrupt_coalesce config in send_queue and receive_queue to cache user
config.

Send per virtqueue interrupt moderation config to underlying device in
order to have more efficient interrupt moderation and cpu utilization of
guest VM.

Additionally, address all the VQs when updating the global configuration,
as now the individual VQs configuration can diverge from the global
configuration.

Signed-off-by: Gavin Li <gavinl@nvidia.com>
Reviewed-by: Dragos Tatulea <dtatulea@nvidia.com>
Reviewed-by: Jiri Pirko <jiri@nvidia.com>
Acked-by: Michael S. Tsirkin <mst@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Heng Qi <hengqi@linux.alibaba.com>
Acked-by: Jason Wang <jasowang@redhat.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20230731070656.96411-3-gavinl@nvidia.com


Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>