samples/bpf: xdp_redirect_cpu adjustment to reproduce teardown race easier

The teardown race in cpumap is really hard to reproduce.  These changes
makes it easier to reproduce, for QA.

The --stress-mode now have a case of a very small queue size of 8, that helps
to trigger teardown flush to encounter a full queue, which results in calling
xdp_return_frame API, in a non-NAPI protect context.

Also increase MAX_CPUS, as my QA department have larger machines than me.

Tested-by: Jean-Tsung Hsiao <jhsiao@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Jesper Dangaard Brouer <brouer@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Daniel Borkmann <daniel@iogearbox.net>