btrfs: convert BUG() for pending_del_nr into an ASSERT

This is a logic correctness check, convert it into an ASSERT() instead
of a BUG().

Reviewed-by: Filipe Manana <fdmanana@suse.com>
Signed-off-by: Josef Bacik <josef@toxicpanda.com>
Reviewed-by: David Sterba <dsterba@suse.com>
Signed-off-by: David Sterba <dsterba@suse.com>