fs: replace f_rcuhead with f_task_work

The naming is actively misleading since we switched to
SLAB_TYPESAFE_BY_RCU. rcu_head is #define callback_head. Use
callback_head directly and rename f_rcuhead to f_task_work.

Add comments in there to explain what it's used for.

Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20231130-vfs-files-fixes-v1-3-e73ca6f4ea83@kernel.org
Reviewed-by: Jan Kara <jack@suse.cz>
Reviewed-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>
Signed-off-by: Christian Brauner <brauner@kernel.org>