drbd: reduce number of spinlock drop/re-aquire cycles

Instead of dropping and re-aquiring the spinlock around the submit,
just remember that we want to submit, and do that only once we have
dropped the spinlock for good.

Signed-off-by: Philipp Reisner <philipp.reisner@linbit.com>
Signed-off-by: Lars Ellenberg <lars.ellenberg@linbit.com>