cachefiles: introduce object ondemand state

Previously, @ondemand_id field was used not only to identify ondemand
state of the object, but also to represent the index of the xarray.
This commit introduces @state field to decouple the role of @ondemand_id
and adds helpers to access it.

Signed-off-by: Jia Zhu <zhujia.zj@bytedance.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20231120041422.75170-2-zhujia.zj@bytedance.com
Reviewed-by: Jingbo Xu <jefflexu@linux.alibaba.com>
Reviewed-by: David Howells <dhowells@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Christian Brauner <brauner@kernel.org>