bpftool: Fix bpftool build by switching to bpf_object__open_file()

As part of libbpf in 5e61f270 ("libbpf: stop enforcing kern_version,
populate it for users") non-LIBBPF_API __bpf_object__open_xattr() API
was removed from libbpf.h header. This broke bpftool, which relied on
that function. This patch fixes the build by switching to newly added
bpf_object__open_file() which provides the same capabilities, but is
official and future-proof API.

v1->v2:
- fix prog_type shadowing (Stanislav).

Fixes: 5e61f270

 ("libbpf: stop enforcing kern_version, populate it for users")
Reported-by: Stanislav Fomichev <sdf@google.com>
Signed-off-by: Andrii Nakryiko <andriin@fb.com>
Signed-off-by: Alexei Starovoitov <ast@kernel.org>
Reviewed-by: Stanislav Fomichev <sdf@google.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/bpf/20191007225604.2006146-1-andriin@fb.com