btrfs: reduce size of struct btrfs_ref

We can reduce two members' size that in turn reduce size of struct
btrfs_ref from 64 to 56 bytes. As the structure is often used as a local
variable several functions reduce their stack usage.

- make enum btrfs_ref_type packed, there are only 4 values

- switch action and its values to a packed enum

Final structure layout:

struct btrfs_ref {
        enum btrfs_ref_type        type;                 /*     0     1 */
        enum btrfs_delayed_ref_action action;            /*     1     1 */
        bool                       skip_qgroup;          /*     2     1 */

        /* XXX 5 bytes hole, try to pack */

        u64                        bytenr;               /*     8     8 */
        u64                        len;                  /*    16     8 */
        u64                        parent;               /*    24     8 */
        union {
                struct btrfs_data_ref data_ref;          /*    32    24 */
                struct btrfs_tree_ref tree_ref;          /*    32    16 */
        };                                               /*    32    24 */

        /* size: 56, cachelines: 1, members: 7 */
        /* sum members: 51, holes: 1, sum holes: 5 */
        /* last cacheline: 56 bytes */
};

Reviewed-by: Qu Wenruo <wqu@suse.com>
Signed-off-by: David Sterba <dsterba@suse.com>