nbd: factor out a helper to get nbd_config without holding 'config_lock'

There are no functional changes, just to make code cleaner and prepare
to fix null-ptr-dereference while accessing 'nbd->config'.

Signed-off-by: Li Nan <linan122@huawei.com>
Reviewed-by: Josef Bacik <josef@toxicpanda.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20231116162316.1740402-3-linan666@huaweicloud.com


Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>