ASoC: SOF: Intel: hda: Unify DAI drv ops for IPC3 and IPC4

Define the post_trigger DMA op for IPC3 and unify the DAI driver ops for
IPC3 and IPC4 for HDA DAI's.

Also, use the post_trigger op to stop the paused streams properly in the
hda_dai_suspend() function. This fixes the suspend while paused case for
IPC4 because previously we weren't resetting the pipeline when suspending
the system with some paused streams.

Signed-off-by: Ranjani Sridharan <ranjani.sridharan@linux.intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Bard Liao <yung-chuan.liao@linux.intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Pierre-Louis Bossart <pierre-louis.bossart@linux.intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Péter Ujfalusi <peter.ujfalusi@linux.intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Rander Wang <rander.wang@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Peter Ujfalusi <peter.ujfalusi@linux.intel.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20230307140435.2808-13-peter.ujfalusi@linux.intel.com
Signed-off-by: Mark Brown <broonie@kernel.org>