io_uring: make del_task_file more forgiving

Rework io_uring_del_task_file(), so it accepts an index to delete, and
it's not necessarily have to be in the ->xa. Infer file from xa_erase()
to maintain a single origin of truth.

Signed-off-by: Pavel Begunkov <asml.silence@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>