net: implement lockless SO_MAX_PACING_RATE

SO_MAX_PACING_RATE setsockopt() does not need to hold
the socket lock, because sk->sk_pacing_rate readers
can run fine if the value is changed by other threads,
after adding READ_ONCE() accessors.

Signed-off-by: Eric Dumazet <edumazet@google.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>