bpf: Fix a potential use-after-free in bpf_link_free()

After commit 1a80dbcb, bpf_link can be freed by
link->ops->dealloc_deferred, but the code still tests and uses
link->ops->dealloc afterward, which leads to a use-after-free as
reported by syzbot. Actually, one of them should be sufficient, so
just call one of them instead of both. Also add a WARN_ON() in case
of any problematic implementation.

Fixes: 1a80dbcb

 ("bpf: support deferring bpf_link dealloc to after RCU grace period")
Reported-by:  <syzbot+1989ee16d94720836244@syzkaller.appspotmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Cong Wang <cong.wang@bytedance.com>
Signed-off-by: Daniel Borkmann <daniel@iogearbox.net>
Acked-by: Jiri Olsa <jolsa@kernel.org>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/bpf/20240602182703.207276-1-xiyou.wangcong@gmail.com