libbpf: Support getsockopt XDP_OPTIONS

Query XDP_OPTIONS in libbpf to determine if the zero-copy mode is active
or not.

Signed-off-by: Maxim Mikityanskiy <maximmi@mellanox.com>
Signed-off-by: Tariq Toukan <tariqt@mellanox.com>
Acked-by: Saeed Mahameed <saeedm@mellanox.com>
Acked-by: Björn Töpel <bjorn.topel@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Daniel Borkmann <daniel@iogearbox.net>