macvlan: better mode validation

macvlan passthrough mode is special: it's not possible to switch to or
from it through a netlink command.

But if you try, the command will succeed, which is
confusing.

Validate input and return error to user.

Cc:  Sridhar Samudrala <sri@us.ibm.com>
Cc: "David S. Miller" <davem@davemloft.net>
Signed-off-by: Michael S. Tsirkin <mst@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>