i2c: core: Allow override timing properties with 0

Some drivers may allow to override properties with 0 value when defaults
are not in use, thus, replace memset() with corresponding per property
update.

Signed-off-by: Andy Shevchenko <andriy.shevchenko@linux.intel.com>
Tested-by: Wolfram Sang <wsa+renesas@sang-engineering.com>
Signed-off-by: Wolfram Sang <wsa@the-dreams.de>