nvme-tcp: fix H2CData PDU send accounting (again)

We should not access request members after the last send, even to
determine if indeed it was the last data payload send. The reason is
that a completion could have arrived and trigger a new execution of the
request which overridden these members. This was fixed by commit
825619b0 ("nvme-tcp: fix possible use-after-completion").

Commit e371af03 broke that assumption again to address cases where
multiple r2t pdus are sent per request. To fix it, we need to record the
request data_sent and data_len and after the payload network send we
reference these counters to determine weather we should advance the
request iterator.

Fixes: e371af03 ("nvme-tcp: fix incorrect h2cdata pdu offset accounting")
Reported-by: Keith Busch <kbusch@kernel.org>
Cc: stable@vger.kernel.org # 5.10+
Signed-off-by: Sagi Grimberg <sagi@grimberg.me>
Reviewed-by: Keith Busch <kbusch@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>