selftests/bpf: improve netcnt test robustness

Change netcnt to demand at least 10K packets, as we frequently see some
stray packet arriving during the test in BPF CI. It seems more important
to make sure we haven't lost any packet than enforcing exact number of
packets.

Cc: Stanislav Fomichev <sdf@google.com>
Signed-off-by: Andrii Nakryiko <andrii@kernel.org>
Acked-by: Stanislav Fomichev <sdf@google.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20230515204833.2832000-1-andrii@kernel.org
Signed-off-by: Alexei Starovoitov <ast@kernel.org>