bpf: allow struct bpf_wq to be embedded in arraymaps and hashmaps

Currently bpf_wq_cancel_and_free() is just a placeholder as there is
no memory allocation for bpf_wq just yet.

Again, duplication of the bpf_timer approach

Signed-off-by: Benjamin Tissoires <bentiss@kernel.org>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20240420-bpf_wq-v2-9-6c986a5a741f@kernel.org


Signed-off-by: Alexei Starovoitov <ast@kernel.org>