bpf: Use nla_ok() instead of checking nla_len directly

nla_len may also be too short to be sane, in which case after
recent changes nla_len() will return a wrapped value.

Fixes: 172db56d ("netlink: Return unsigned value for nla_len()")
Reported-by:  <syzbot+f43a23b6e622797c7a28@syzkaller.appspotmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: Daniel Borkmann <daniel@iogearbox.net>
Reviewed-by: Simon Horman <horms@kernel.org>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/bpf/20231218231904.260440-1-kuba@kernel.org