IB/core: If the MGID/MLID pair is not on the list return an error

A list of MGID/MLID pairs is built when doing a multicast attach.  When
the multicast detach is called, the list is searched, and regardless of
the search outcome, the driver detach is called.

If an MGID/MLID pair is not on the list, driver detach should not be
called, and an error should be returned.  Calling the driver without
removing an MGID/MLID pair from the list can leave the core and driver
out of sync.

Fixes: f4e40156 ("IB/uverbs: track multicast group membership for userspace QPs")
Cc: stable@vger.kernel.org
Reviewed-by: Ira Weiny <ira.weiny@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Leon Romanovsky <leonro@mellanox.com>
Signed-off-by: Michael J. Ruhl <michael.j.ruhl@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Dennis Dalessandro <dennis.dalessandro@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Doug Ledford <dledford@redhat.com>