bpf: sockmap, add sample option to test apply_bytes helper

This adds an option to test the apply_bytes helper. This option lets
the user specify an int on the command line specifying how much data
each verdict should apply to.

When this is set a map entry is set with the bytes input by the user
and then the specified program --txmsg or --txmsg_redir will use the
value and set the applied data. If no other option is set then a
default --txmsg_apply program is run. This program will drop pkts
if an error is detected on the bytes map lookup. Useful to verify
the map lookup and apply helper are working and causing a hard
error if it is not.

Signed-off-by: John Fastabend <john.fastabend@gmail.com>
Acked-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>
Signed-off-by: Daniel Borkmann <daniel@iogearbox.net>