aoe: increase net_device reference count while using it

This change eliminates the danger that the user could rmmod the driver for
a network interface that is being used for AoE by the aoe driver.

Signed-off-by: Ed Cashin <ecashin@coraid.com>
Signed-off-by: Andrew Morton <akpm@linux-foundation.org>
Signed-off-by: Linus Torvalds <torvalds@linux-foundation.org>