drbd: bitmap keep track of changes vs on-disk bitmap

When we set or clear bits in a bitmap page,
also set a flag in the page->private pointer.

This allows us to skip writes of unchanged pages.

Signed-off-by: Philipp Reisner <philipp.reisner@linbit.com>
Signed-off-by: Lars Ellenberg <lars.ellenberg@linbit.com>