fuse: improve utimes support

Add two new flags for setattr: FATTR_ATIME_NOW and FATTR_MTIME_NOW.  These
mean, that atime or mtime should be changed to the current time.

Also it is now possible to update atime or mtime individually, not just
together.

Signed-off-by: Miklos Szeredi <mszeredi@suse.cz>
Signed-off-by: Andrew Morton <akpm@linux-foundation.org>
Signed-off-by: Linus Torvalds <torvalds@linux-foundation.org>