flow_dissector: Pull locking up from prog attach callback

Split out the part of attach callback that happens with attach/detach lock
acquired. This structures the prog attach callback in a way that opens up
doors for moving the locking out of flow_dissector and into generic
callbacks for attaching/detaching progs to netns in subsequent patches.

Signed-off-by: Jakub Sitnicki <jakub@cloudflare.com>
Signed-off-by: Alexei Starovoitov <ast@kernel.org>
Reviewed-by: Stanislav Fomichev <sdf@google.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/bpf/20200531082846.2117903-2-jakub@cloudflare.com