spi: Move ctlr->cur_msg_prepared to struct spi_message

This enables the possibility to transfer a message that is not at the
current tip of the async message queue.
This is in preparation of the next patch(es) which enable spi_sync messages
to skip the queue altogether.

Signed-off-by: David Jander <david@protonic.nl>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20220621061234.3626638-2-david@protonic.nl
Signed-off-by: Mark Brown <broonie@kernel.org>