wifi: iwlwifi: handle eSR transitions

There several transitions to handle in eSR mode:
* SMPS should be disabled when in eSR mode
* indicate to the fw whether the new added link should use the
  listen lmac or the main lmac
* RLC is offloaded when in eSR mode; adjust RLC command accordingly

Signed-off-by: Miri Korenblit <miriam.rachel.korenblit@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Gregory Greenman <gregory.greenman@intel.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20230615094410.fb6409f44aca.I502460dec15e0b76035ad3cd809afa4ac16e9fe1@changeid
Signed-off-by: Johannes Berg <johannes.berg@intel.com>