IB/uverbs: Improve lockdep_check

This is really being used as an assert that the expected usecnt
is being held and implicitly that the usecnt is valid. Rename it to
assert_uverbs_usecnt and tighten the checks to only accept valid
values of usecnt (eg 0 and < -1 are invalid).

The tigher checkes make the assertion cover more cases and is more
likely to find bugs via syzkaller/etc.

Fixes: 38321256 ("IB/core: Add support for idr types")
Signed-off-by: Leon Romanovsky <leon@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: Jason Gunthorpe <jgg@mellanox.com>