nvme: add a numa_node field to struct nvme_ctrl

Instead of directly poking into the struct device add a new numa_node
field to struct nvme_ctrl.  This allows fabrics drivers where ctrl->dev
is a virtual device to support NUMA affinity as well.

Also expose the field as a sysfs attribute, and populate it for the
RDMA and FC transports.

Signed-off-by: Hannes Reinecke <hare@suse.com>
Reviewed-by: Sagi Grimberg <sagi@grimberg.me>
Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>