net/mlx5: Use native_port_num as 1st option of device index

Using "native_port_num" can support more NICs.

Fallback to PCIe IDs if "native_port_num" query fails.

Signed-off-by: Rongwei Liu <rongweil@nvidia.com>
Reviewed-by: Mark Bloch <mbloch@nvidia.com>
Signed-off-by: Saeed Mahameed <saeedm@nvidia.com>