drm/i915/gt: Check the virtual still matches upon locking

If another sibling is able to claim the virtual request, by the time we
inspect the request under the lock it may no longer match the local
engine.

Closes: https://gitlab.freedesktop.org/drm/intel/-/issues/2877


Signed-off-by: Chris Wilson <chris@chris-wilson.co.uk>
Reviewed-by: Andi Shyti <andi.shyti@intel.com>
Link: https://patchwork.freedesktop.org/patch/msgid/20210104115145.24460-4-chris@chris-wilson.co.uk