net: use dst_confirm_neigh for UDP, RAW, ICMP, L2TP

When same struct dst_entry can be used for many different
neighbours we can not use it for pending confirmations.

The datagram protocols can use MSG_CONFIRM to confirm the
neighbour. When used with MSG_PROBE we do not reach the
code where neighbour is confirmed, so we have to do the
same slow lookup by using the dst_confirm_neigh() helper.
When MSG_PROBE is not used, ip_append_data/ip6_append_data
will set the skb flag dst_pending_confirm.

Reported-by: YueHaibing <yuehaibing@huawei.com>
Fixes: 5110effe ("net: Do delayed neigh confirmation.")
Fixes: f2bb4bed

 ("ipv4: Cache output routes in fib_info nexthops.")
Signed-off-by: Julian Anastasov <ja@ssi.bg>
Acked-by: Eric Dumazet <edumazet@google.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>