net/sctp: Replace in/out stream arrays with flex_array

This path replaces physically contiguous memory arrays
allocated using kmalloc_array() with flexible arrays.
This enables to avoid memory allocation failures on the
systems under a memory stress.

Signed-off-by: Oleg Babin <obabin@virtuozzo.com>
Signed-off-by: Konstantin Khorenko <khorenko@virtuozzo.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>