powerpc/qspinlock: theft prevention to control latency

Give the queue head the ability to stop stealers. After a number of
spins without successfully acquiring the lock, the queue head sets
this, which halts stealing and will assure it is the next owner.

Signed-off-by: Nicholas Piggin <npiggin@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Michael Ellerman <mpe@ellerman.id.au>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20221126095932.1234527-6-npiggin@gmail.com