dm: use common __issue_target_request for flush and discard support

Rename __flush_target to __issue_target_request now that it is used to
issue both flush and discard requests.

Introduce __issue_target_requests as a convenient wrapper to
__issue_target_request 'num_flush_requests' or 'num_discard_requests'
times per target.

Signed-off-by: Mike Snitzer <snitzer@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Alasdair G Kergon <agk@redhat.com>