xfs: combine iunlink inode update functions

Combine the logging of the inode unlink list update into the
calling function that looks up the buffer we end up logging. These
do not need to be separate functions as they are both short, simple
operations and there's only a single call path through them. This
new function will end up being the core of the iunlink log item
processing...

Signed-off-by: Dave Chinner <dchinner@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Reviewed-by: Darrick J. Wong <djwong@kernel.org>