btrfs: dev-replace: go back to suspend state if another EXCL_OP is running

In a secnario where balance and replace co-exists as below,

  - start balance
  - pause balance
  - start replace
  - reboot

and when system restarts, balance resumes first. Then the replace is
attempted to restart but will fail as the EXCL_OP lock is already held
by the balance. If so place the replace state back to
BTRFS_IOCTL_DEV_REPLACE_STATE_SUSPENDED state.

Fixes: 010a47bd

 ("btrfs: add proper safety check before resuming dev-replace")
CC: stable@vger.kernel.org # 4.18+
Signed-off-by: Anand Jain <anand.jain@oracle.com>
Reviewed-by: David Sterba <dsterba@suse.com>
Signed-off-by: David Sterba <dsterba@suse.com>