gfs2: Dequeue waiters when withdrawn

When a withdraw occurs, ordinary (not system) glocks may not be granted
anymore. Later, when the file system is unmounted, gfs2_gl_hash_clear()
tries to clear out all the glocks, but these un-grantable pending
waiters prevent some glocks from being freed. So the unmount hangs, at
least for its ten-minute timeout period.

This patch takes measures to remove any pending waiters from
the glocks that will never be granted. This allows the unmount to
proceed in a reasonable period of time.

Signed-off-by: Bob Peterson <rpeterso@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Andreas Gruenbacher <agruenba@redhat.com>