drm/xe: Make TLB invalidation fences unordered

They can actually complete out-of-order, so allocate a unique
fence context for each fence.

Fixes: 5387e865 ("drm/xe: Add TLB invalidation fence after rebinds issued from execs")
Cc: Matthew Brost <matthew.brost@intel.com>
Cc: <stable@vger.kernel.org> # v6.8+
Signed-off-by: Thomas Hellström <thomas.hellstrom@linux.intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Matthew Brost <matthew.brost@intel.com>
Link: https://patchwork.freedesktop.org/patch/msgid/20240327091136.3271-4-thomas.hellstrom@linux.intel.com