qemu: Add knob for enabling PMDK pmem support

This ensures that libpmem dependency is added in a consistent manner

Signed-off-by: Khem Raj <raj.khem@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Alexandre Belloni <alexandre.belloni@bootlin.com>
Signed-off-by: Richard Purdie <richard.purdie@linuxfoundation.org>