dpkg-native: rebase and reinstate fix for "tar: file changed as we read it"

In OE-Core rev 8ee36a5f a patch was
added for dpkg to ignore a return of 1 from dpkg's calls to tar (which
indicates that files changed in some way while tar was operating) we
were observing failures on the autobuilder due to changes to link counts
in hard-linked file trees. The patch was subsequently rebased and then
later removed during an upgrade in
3812f58b on the assumption that the fix
had been applied upstream, however that was not the case. I am now
occasionally seeing these errors in my builds without any apparent
material change to the files, so rebase and reinstate the patch.

Fixes [YOCTO #13913].

Signed-off-by: Paul Eggleton <paul.eggleton@linux.microsoft.com>