[ORC] C API updates.

Adds support for creating custom MaterializationUnits in the C API with the new
LLVMOrcCreateCustomMaterializationUnit function.

Modifies ownership rules for LLVMOrcAbsoluteSymbols to make it consistent with
LLVMOrcCreateCustomMaterializationUnit. This is an ABI breaking change for any
clients of the LLVMOrcAbsoluteSymbols API.

Adds LLVMOrcLLJITGetObjLinkingLayer and LLVMOrcObjectLayerEmit functions to
allow clients to get a reference to an LLJIT instance's linking layer, then
emit an object file using it. This can be used to support construction of
custom materialization units in the common case where those units will
generate an object file that needs to be emitted to complete the
materialization.