[sanitizer] Place module_ctor/module_dtor in llvm.used

This removes an abuse of ELF linker behaviors while keeping Mach-O/COFF linker
behaviors unchanged.

ELF: when module_ctor is in a comdat, this patch removes reliance on a linker
abuse (an SHT_INIT_ARRAY in a section group retains the whole group) by using
SHF_GNU_RETAIN. No linker behavior difference when module_ctor is not in a comdat.

Mach-O: module_ctor gets `N_NO_DEAD_STRIP`. No linker behavior difference
because module_ctor is already referenced by a `S_MOD_INIT_FUNC_POINTERS`
section (GC root).

PE/COFF: no-op. SanitizerCoverage already appends module_ctor to `llvm.used`.
Other sanitizers: llvm.used for local linkage is not implemented in
`TargetLoweringObjectFileCOFF::emitLinkerDirectives` (once implemented or
switched to a non-local linkage, COFF can use module_ctor in comdat (i.e.
generalize ELF-specific rL301586)).

There is no object file size difference.

Reviewed By: vitalybuka

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D106246