Add code to optionally make InkDropContainerView auto size to the parent.

This fixes an issue that HoverButton had assumed the ancestor LabelButton had already laid out the ink_drop_container_ view.

Change-Id: I9f44e70a4982717ea1d8a9f30b9210515e033b11
Bug: 344921716
Reviewed-on: https://chromium-review.googlesource.com/c/chromium/src/+/5605096


Commit-Queue: Allen Bauer <kylixrd@chromium.org>
Code-Coverage: findit-for-me@appspot.gserviceaccount.com <findit-for-me@appspot.gserviceaccount.com>
Reviewed-by: Peter Kasting <pkasting@chromium.org>
Cr-Commit-Position: refs/heads/main@{#1312162}